Media personality, Toke Makinwa, has declared that cheating is no longer a deal breaker for her.
In her most recent podcast, Toke Makinwa—whose ex-husband, Maje Ayida, is said to have cheated on her, announced this.
She claimed that as she got older, she understood that it’s easier for women to cheat than men, and that self-control is the only reason some of them don’t.
She said “I think a lot of women need to reject the stigma. If I cheat, it’s okay for the man to do the same to me.
“I feel like I have gotten to a place in my life where you can’t shame the shameless. If I cheat tomorrow and you want to leave, I will respect you. If you want to stay, don’t use it to taunt me because I have won the crown of a cheater.
If I’m going to be very honest, cheating is no longer a deal breaker for me. It used to be; when I was younger, I would never have been able to say these. I would have said if he cheat’s, I’m putting back in the street.
As I grew older, I realised men cheat, women cheat. It’s easier for a woman to cheat, it’s self-restraint that stops us. The reason why I’m not quick to put you out is I might be the first person to cheat on you. Forgive me as I have forgiven you.”